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Wiggle Room Podcast: Episode 6

Is Byron Katie's Enlightenment an Impediment for Me? + Blaming Myself, Busy Life, and More

In this episode of the Wiggle Room Podcast, the whole time is spent on questions and answers. I love the honesty and openness of these questions coming from participants who practice and think deeply about The Work of Byron Katie.

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Timeline

0:00 — Intro
2:01 — Question: “Is Byron Katie’s enlightenment experience an impediment to me?”
18:51 — Question: “Does The Work let people off the hook?”
26:52 — Question: “How can I not blame myself when doing The Work?”
30:03 — Newsletter: “How to Fit The Work into a Busy Life”
41:51 — Outro

Open Session Recording

The questions in the first part of this episode are taken from one of my weekly Open Sessions. You can be a participant in my weekly Open Sessions to do The Work with me or ask your questions.

Newsletter Text

In the second half of the recording, I read my article, How to Fit The Work into a Busy Life. During the reading, as always, I add new things that come to mind in addition to the text I wrote.

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Bonus Videos

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Is Byron Katie's Enlightenment experience an impediment to me?

Does The Work let people off the hook?

How to fit the work into a busy life

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