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Wiggle Room Podcast: Episode 27

Using Self Attack As A Kind Of “Safe Place” + I’m Not Caring When I Pull Her Away From What She Wants To Do + Cleaning The Shower Revisited

Using Self Attack As A Kind Of Safe Place

In this episode of the Wiggle Room Podcast, a participant does The Work of Byron Katie on the self-blaming thought, “I’m not caring” from a minor situation with his wife. There is also an interesting question about self-attack.

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0:00 — Intro
02:32 — Question: Using Self Attack As A Kind Of “Safe Place”
07:28 — Inquiry: I’m Not Caring When I Pull Her Away From What She Wants To Do
33:48 — Newsletter: Cleaning the Shower Revisited
40:31 — Outro

Open Session Recording

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Newsletter Text

In the second half of the recording, I read my article, “Cleaning the Shower Revisited” about my own work about fairness in doing household chores with my partner. Subscribe to the newsletter to get new articles like this one each week. 

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