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Wiggle Room Podcast: Episode 88

Why Removing “Should” From Your Vocabulary Is Not Enough To Find Peace + When To Use The OBAAT And When To Use the JYNW + How To Use The Work In A Completely Gentle Way

Why Removing “Should” From Your Vocabulary Is Not Enough To Find Peace
In this episode of the Wiggle Room Podcast we discuss a subtle but important question about why suffering can still continue even if you remove “should” from your vocabulary. We also discuss when to use the Judge-Your-Neighbor Worksheet (JYNW) vs. the One-Belief-at-a-Time Worksheet (OBAAT). We talk about how to do The Work in a gentle way using the principle of balance. And finally, I read my thoughts on making amends.
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Timeline

01:08 — Intro
04:06 — Question: Why Removing “Should” From Your Vocabulary Is Not Enough To Find Peace
12:09 — Question: When To Use The OBAAT And When To Use the JYNW
20:58 — How To Use The Work In A Completely Gentle Way
30:48 — Newsletter: Making Amends Is An Internal Process
43:00 — Outro

Open Session Recording

Listen to the Open Session recording as we explore some practical and fascinating topics related to The Work of Byron Katie. You too can be a participant in Open Sessions each week to do The Work with me, ask your questions, or join in our discussions.

Newsletter Text

In the second part of the recording, I read my article, Making Amends Is An Internal Process. Subscribe to the newsletter to get new articles like this one each week. 

Bonus Videos

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Learn The Work of Byron Katie

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