Wiggle Room Podcast: Episode 7

I Don't Want Him to Worry About Pleasing Me + When Doing The Work, Does It Matter Whose Business You’re In?

I Don't Want Him to Worry About Pleasing Me

In this episode of the Wiggle Room Podcast, a woman picks an everyday situation to do The Work, her husband offering her the choice between lemonade or juice. I love these kinds of seemingly benign situations for doing The Work. They provide the perfect forum for seeing the mind and opening new ways of being. “Trivial,” everyday situations are my favorite.

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0:00 — Intro
2:52 — Inquiry: “I don’t want him to worry about pleasing me.”
33:00 — Newsletter: “When Doing The Work, Does it Matter Whose Business You’re In?”
40:59 — Outro

Open Session Recording

The dialogue in the first part of this episode is taken from one of my weekly Open Sessions. You can be a participant each week in Open Sessions to do The Work with me or ask your questions. This is an unedited recording so you can have the complete experience of starting with a stressful situation and then moving through The Work of Byron Katie (4 Questions and Turnarounds).

Newsletter Article

In the second part of the recording, you’ll hear me reading the newsletter article, When Doing The Work, Does it Matter Whose Business You’re In? This is a common hesitation when doing The Work. I find that people often leave insightful turnarounds on the table because they are afraid of “getting into the other person’s business.” See what I mean in the article I read.

I also encourage you to subscribe to my newsletter to get new articles like this one each week. 

Bonus Videos

If you prefer video, you can watch the following sections of the podcast in HD video.

Become Fluent in The Work of Byron Katie

If you enjoy listening or watching as participants go through the process of doing The Work, you may find that this form of meditation is a match for you. Doing The Work yourself brings this experience to a whole new level.

Want to learn how to hold yourself and others in this meditative practice? Take The Work 101, my nine-week (or nine-month) online course for learning and deepening your practice of The Work. Or join us for a weekend virtual retreat.